Control

So you think you have the right to control someone just because you love them? You think you have the right to dictate the things they can and cant do? Correction, my friend: You dont. LOVE IS NOT ABOUT CONTROLLING WHO YOURE WITH. ITS ABOUT BEING HAPPY WITH THE ONE YOUR WITH. So back the fuck off. I really hate when boyfriends think they can control their girlfriends. Being in love with someone gives you no "rights" at all. No right to control, demand, dictate, or whatever it is they think they can do. Someone very close to me had all of these future plans with her boyfriend. What happened when they broke up? OH.. YEAH. It all fell apart around her. I dont want to watch that happen to anyone else. Whether its college, friends, or some other stupid shit that they think they control, i just get easily annoyed with their stupidity. Being in a relationship means being happy, right? So shouldnt the boyfriend/girlfriend be happy with the things that their significant other wants to do with their life? Personally, i think they should. ITS NOT YOUR LIFE. AND NO ONE HAS CONTROL OVER ANOTHER'S LIFE EXCEPT FOR THAT PERSON. We spend our lives learning lessons but we cant spend our lives waiting around for someone who we dont even know things will work with. THINKING is NOT KNOWING. We dont know if it will be worth it. Going away to college doesnt mean being a l o n e. But here are things it does mean:
--- A CHANCE AT SOMETHING, making new friends, starting FRESH, its a change, being away from everything you know, a new environment, learn something new, independence!!!!, a new life---
Just because you want to go away to college doesnt mean you lose everything you know and have known. It just means you learn NEW things. youll learn more lessons in life. You only really get one shot at college/career/ and a future. But youll get more than one shot at love.
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